Thursday, October 11, 2007

baby - Your Childs Name and its Effect On Childhood Development

Scientists, sociologists, institutes and child development organizations all made tests and studies to show whether or not the way you name your baby has any effects on his childhood development. Well, all these tests, studies and surveys don't mean squat, when compared to common sense. We'll use common sense in the following article, rather than scientific formulas and numbers, in order to determine whether or not the way you name your baby has any effect on his childhood development.

Pre-kindergarten Period

Having a weird or uncommon name as opposed to having a common one probably won't make any difference during this period. A child of this age is cute and cuddly regardless of his name and the only people he will come in personal contact with are his parents' close friends and relatives, which shouldn't feel any different about your little one because of his name. At worst, you could get a reaction from them that goes by the line of "Wow, that's an unusual name...how do you think he/she will feel about it when growing up?". And although most will probably think the above statement, 90% of them will probably shut up about it.

Kindergarten Period

Your child develops a great deal through kindergarten because it's the first time he gets an organized education and it's the first time he spends extensive periods with other kids his age. This is when the name of your baby really starts having some visible effects. Kids start reasoning during kindergarten and they start developing raw social skills, but they also have two traits that can have a negative effect on your child's development: they always speak their mind and they are mean. Yes, children are mean to other children even at this kind of age. How often have we seen a kid hitting another kid, just because he took his playing spot or because he wants to play with that particular toy. Having a weird name won't help stop other kids being mean to yours, on the contrary, it will encourage them. Getting physically and verbally abused every day starting from kindergarten because of your name, won't bring you up as a sturdy character and it will most likely have a negative effect on how you develop as a person.

The fact that they always speak their mind could also have a negative effect. If you named your daughter "Feather", she won't think there's something wrong with her name until he ends up in the same room with several kids. They'll start taunting her almost immediately as they find out about her name and this could drive your daughter into solitude or bar her ability to improve her social skills later on.

Primary, Mid and High School Child Development

In most countries, the entire school process lasts for 12 years, from age 6/7 to 18/19. It's the time your child develops his character, personal skills and it will have a great effect on how he will manage later on in life. It's also the time he can suffer most from his awkward name. The "cool" factor is very important to kids this age and having an awkward name severely reduces that. No one will want to be friends with the "dude with the weird name". On the other hand, having a unique name (as long as it's not weird) can be an advantage as he will stand out of the crowd in class and it could also enhance that "cool" factor we talked about earlier.

Because Your Baby Deserves The Best Name

Fraser Wheaton is the founder and publisher of The Baby Name Kit website.

http://www.BabyNameKit.com

We aim to be the worlds largest content provider for baby name information on the internet. If you have a baby naming question, chances are, we have the answer.

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baby - American Baby Names

Americans have the capacity and the quality to create and improvise baby names that sound great and beautiful any given time of the day. For Americans, the most important name written in your birth certificate is your first name but an increasingly important role is attributed to the middle name and the combination it forms with the first. In the spirit of the cultural variety of the United States, American baby names are usually derived from many other languages, with an obvious emphasis on English baby names.

There are also a wide variety of unique American names that are derived from names related to history, different location names, color meanings, flowers, fictional characters, or names that have religious origins. But not all people respect these types of genres;

An increasing number of American parents tend to opt for a more non-conformist type of choosing a baby name than by simply choosing from the above-mentioned categories. Some choose to create original and unique baby names by themselves, others choose to combine existing names to form new ones, whereas others are influenced by mythical or interesting cultures when choosing their babies names, such as specific ancient Greek or Roman names, or Native American baby names.

Today, most Americans ask themselves a couple of simple questions before actually choosing a name for their babies, namely questions like:

If I choose a certain name for my baby, will it suit him or her?

Will it affect my babys success in life?

Will this name be popular 20 years from now, or will my 20-years old son be taunted by his friends because of his dated name?

When choosing a name, should I choose a traditional American baby name or a name with religious or historical signification?

Will an unusual or exotic name suit my baby or should I stick to the casual ones American baby names?

These are just a few questions that need to be taken in consideration when deciding on your babys first and middle names. Just make sure that the names that you choose sound well together and you dont get combinations such as Monica Catherine and the horrible cacophony it comes attached with.

Here are a few examples of popular American baby names: Casey is a nice American baby boys name that has a pretty meaning: brave. Sandy, which is a derivate of the Greek name Sandrine, is another American baby girls name with a special meaning: defender of mankind. Darlene is a beautiful American baby girls name that has sounds similar to darling. Vivian is a girls name and its meaning is alive.

For those who want names with a religious meaning or message, Tina is a good American baby girls name choice, as it means a follower of Christ. Here are some Native American baby names, if those other examples werent what you were looking for: Howi is a Native American baby boys name originating from the Miwok clan and the name can be translated by turtle dove.

Another Native American name with a Zuni origin is Malia. Malias translation is Bitter or sea of bitterness, which is not necessarily pleasant, but then again, who will know what your babys name actually means anyway?

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